Don’t Let Your Startup Fears Stop You

If I had a dollar for everyone I’ve met who told me they wanted to start a business but were “too scared,” I’d be a very rich woman today. But, fear of starting a business is nothing unusual, as the results of a recent survey show. In fact, starting a business was rated scarier than getting divorced, becoming a parent for the first time or moving to a new city by those surveyed by The UPS Store. Overall, starting a business was ranked the second-scariest life event (just behind worries over retirement savings).

But should you let these fears hold you back from starting a business? Let me ask you this: If you have taken the plunge and had children even though you were nervous about it, how do you feel about your decision today? Yeah, I thought so.

Well, just like becoming a parent, starting your own business is terrifying—but also one of the best things you’ll ever do. And, just like becoming a parent requires lots of advice and support to learn the ropes, “it takes a village” to get your business off the ground.

As a startup entrepreneur, your “village” can come in many forms—from the supportive spouse or business partner to the local chamber of commerce and other small business owners you network with. However, one of the most useful people you can have in your village is a mentor. In The UPS Store survey, a whopping 82 percent of small business owners who had worked with a mentor while starting their businesses say the experience was helpful in getting them through the process. Among those who want to start a business, 73 percent say it would be helpful to get firsthand advice from a mentor who’s actually started a business.

Mentors can help in so many ways:

  • They help you develop a plan and break it down into smaller steps so starting a business seems less overwhelming.
  • They show you how to do the things you need to do, like setting up an accounting system or finding a location.
  • They provide motivation to keep you going (starting a business isn’t easy).
  • They introduce you to others (bankers, accountants, attorneys, etc.) who can help your business grow.
  • They hold you accountable so you can’t flake out and give up on your dreams.
  • Most of all, they help boost your confidence by providing a sounding board, listening and sharing their own stories to show you “it can be done.” Often, all you really need is a shoulder to cry on (metaphorically speaking) or someone to vent to.

Mentors can help prepare you to run a business—and preparation is critical to successfully surmounting the many challenges of startup. In The UPS Store survey, more than half the small business owners say they were more prepared than they originally thought to start a business. So perhaps, like those business owners, you’re selling yourself short. To help you prepare for your launch, visit to get matched with a mentor who’s been there, done that. 

Rieva Lesonsky
<p> Rieva is CEO of GrowBiz Media, a content and consulting company specializing in covering small businesses and entrepreneurship. She was formerly Editorial Director of Entrepreneur Magazine and has written several books about small business and entrepreneurship. <br /> <a href="" target="_blank" title="GrowBizMedia"></a> | <a href="" target="_blank" title="Rieva on Twitter">@rieva</a> | <a href="" title="blogs by Rieva">More from Rieva</a></p>


Awesome article, Rieva. Non

Awesome article, Rieva. Non profits like SCORE are great in helping entrepreneurs get their new business idea going. I have signed up for their services and am excited for the advice and recommendations. This particular industry is complicated and has high start up costs. Looking forward to hearing how I can be helped and hopefully build a strong team to hit the ground running!

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